A tidal wave of emotions accompany the journey towards bringing a baby/child into your life. Like any challenge, you can come out on the other side stronger.
I’m here to offer you support and emotional guidance to move through the challenges to a place of strength, confidence and grace.
The focus of my infertility therapy has three aspects.
- The first is helping you connect with your innate wisdom. There are so many decisions to make, so many options, when bringing in a child to your family. When you can easily tap into your innate wisdom, decisions are much easier because they are from your “Knowing.” This tool is vital to develop as a mother as well, so developing it now will pave the way for your wisdom to continue to shine.
- The second is emotional healing and release. The emotional roller coaster of this journey is intense. If you don’t tend to your emotional system properly it will fry your body/spirit/mind. I will help you learn an easy way to move into and through emotions, so they become fuel to nourish you instead of weight to burden you.
- The third is looking at our life lesson’s. Discover what is being learned in your journey, so you can learn the lesson and stop being stuck and confused. We are here to learn life lessons on compassion, forgiveness, generosity, patience and love.
Why I Offer Fertility Counseling:
I’ve lived the infertility journey. My support system helped me in the darkest of days so I could emerge stronger into the light, and this is why I offer my support for you to do the same.
My biggest life lesson showed up when I wanted to have a child. My son took 6 years to arrive after we started the process to get him here. I went through hell and back countless times. Because of my lack of patience, I experienced a lot of self aggression when it wasn’t easy or smooth. Each time failure feelings came up, I knew I had more to learn about the lesson of self-compassion.
I looked at my journey through the lens of my life lessons and it literally saved me. I knew with each desperate heartbreak, I was learning my own strength through perseverance.
My son was born via traditional surrogacy, with a surrogate whom I knew previously. She remains a friend and my son visits her and his half brothers yearly. It was a unique journey of including many people into bringing our son home. If you are looking at adoption, surrogacy or IVF with donor eggs, I’d be delighted to share the wisdom I learned about the very real drawbacks/challenges, as well as positive sides, of these paths.
I became more of the person I set out to learn to be in this life, which is compassionate, courageous, loving. I share my story to give you a sense of what I went through and how it informs what I can offer to you.
I’ve found everyone going through the struggle shares similar a heartbreak and sense of isolation. I’ve also found every single woman is on her own journey, guided by a wisdom much bigger than any of us. When open to that wisdom, her unique path becomes clear.
Fertility Health Professionals:
I work with many clients who also use acupuncture, Maya massage, naturopathic doctors and other holistic health practitioners. I’ve received acupuncture for 20 years and love it! I’ve been helped by many other holistic practitioners as well.
Additionally, I support clients who are currently using fertility clinics for IUI, IVF, and everything in between, at Conceptions Reproductive Associates, Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine CCRM, and other Boulder and Denver area infertility specialists.
There are so many options and it can be overwhelming. We can navigate the choices together to help you tune into your wisdom as to the best path for you and your unique situation.